Below are some resources that will help you get more dating related traffic.

Search Engines
Search engines are a great way to get highly targeted traffic that will convert well into sales.

Webposition Gold
The ultimate tool in achieving top search engine placements. This program helps you optimize your meta tags and page content to be as search engine friendly as possible. It also allows you to run automated searches to see where you are listed.

Search Engine Watch
A comprehensive resource full of the latest information on staying on top of the search engine game.

Link Exchanges
A great way to get dating related traffic on a grassroots level. Get your site listed on relevant directories in exchange for a small logo placement.
1. Lovesites Dating Directory
2. SingleSites.com
3. Relationship.net

Please note that the use of the terms Udate, and Udate.com is considered trademark infringement and will be dealt with accordingly. Anyone using these terms in a way that could be considered misrepresentation of the brand will be removed from the program with the possibility of legal recourse.